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No One is Going to Rescue You

As I sit here on the two-year anniversary of my daughter’s passing, a painful truth echoes in my mind: no one is going to rescue us from our pain. This realization, as harsh as it sounds, is a cornerstone of my journey and my teachings…

Death Anniversaries

Hello, I’m Cristi Bundukamara, and today, I want to share with you a deeply personal experience that has shaped my life profoundly – the death anniversary of my beloved son, Reggie. As I recount this painful journey, I hope to offer you three essential tips..

Grief is Pain: 3 Practical Tips

Grief is Pain. That’s a truth I want to emphasize. Anyone who claims otherwise, I challenge them. In my own experience of grieving, I delved into various grief theories, and what I discovered left me with a feeling that these theories failed to understand the..

Joy and Pain Can Coexist

Grief is a complex emotion, one that often seems at odds with joy. The pain of loss can be so overwhelming that it can feel impossible to find moments of happiness amidst the darkness. However, we’re going to delve into a powerful perspective. I have..

Gratitude in Grief: How Can You Find It?

Losing a loved one is an unimaginable pain, a journey that I intimately understand. My powerful story is marked by the loss of my three children over 17 years. Despite my overwhelming grief, I want to share three profound strategies that have helped me find..

Demystifying the DSM: Understanding Trichotillomania

Welcome to the Mentally STRONG Clinic’s blog series on “Demystifying the DSM.” Today’s topic is Trichotillomania, inspired by Dr. Cristi Bundukumara’s (Dr. B) enlightening YouTube video. What is Trichotillomania? Do you ever find yourself pulling out your hair? Be it eyelashes, eyebrows, or even the..