As I sit here on the two-year anniversary of my daughter’s passing, a painful truth echoes in my mind: no one is going to rescue us from our pain. This realization, as harsh as it sounds, is a cornerstone of my journey and my teachings…
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Get Unstuck: What To Do When You Feel Stuck in Grief
Hello, I’m Cristi Bundukamara, and today, I want to share my deeply personal journey through grief and how I’ve managed to turn my pain into purpose. I recently received a request to discuss the concept of fight or flight in the context of grief, and..
Death Anniversaries
Hello, I’m Cristi Bundukamara, and today, I want to share with you a deeply personal experience that has shaped my life profoundly – the death anniversary of my beloved son, Reggie. As I recount this painful journey, I hope to offer you three essential tips..
Grief is Pain: 3 Practical Tips
Grief is Pain. That’s a truth I want to emphasize. Anyone who claims otherwise, I challenge them. In my own experience of grieving, I delved into various grief theories, and what I discovered left me with a feeling that these theories failed to understand the..
Joy and Pain Can Coexist
Grief is a complex emotion, one that often seems at odds with joy. The pain of loss can be so overwhelming that it can feel impossible to find moments of happiness amidst the darkness. However, we’re going to delve into a powerful perspective. I have..
Gratitude in Grief: How Can You Find It?
Losing a loved one is an unimaginable pain, a journey that I intimately understand. My powerful story is marked by the loss of my three children over 17 years. Despite my overwhelming grief, I want to share three profound strategies that have helped me find..
Finding Your Answer to “Why Me?” – A Journey of Healing and Strength
“Why me?” It’s a question that resonates with many of us during life’s most challenging moments. Those two simple words can carry a heavy burden of pain, sorrow, and frustration. In this personal transcript, I, Cristi Bundukamara, will share my own experiences and insights into..
Demystifying the DSM: Understanding Trichotillomania
Welcome to the Mentally STRONG Clinic’s blog series on “Demystifying the DSM.” Today’s topic is Trichotillomania, inspired by Dr. Cristi Bundukumara’s (Dr. B) enlightening YouTube video. What is Trichotillomania? Do you ever find yourself pulling out your hair? Be it eyelashes, eyebrows, or even the..
Panic Disorder: Understanding Triggers and Managing Symptoms
Panic disorder is characterized by frequent panic attacks, often accompanied by physical symptoms that can be distressing. Understanding what triggers these episodes and how to manage them can significantly improve one’s quality of life. This blog will explore the difference between anxiety and panic, discuss..
Emotional Wealth: 3 Tools to Manage Your Energy Wisely
In our fast-paced lives, we often forget that emotions require energy and time. Just as we manage our finances to achieve financial goals, it’s crucial to manage our emotional budget to reach a state of well-being and self-actualization. While there’s no shortage of advice from..