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Sense of Purpose: How to Find and Grow Yours
Last Updated: September 3, 2026 Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC A sense of purpose does not have to arrive as one dramatic calling. In my conversation with Trista, we explored how purpose can begin in an ordinary role, change through different seasons, and become clearer through action…
Emotional Pain: How to Process It Without Suffering
Emotional Pain: How to Process It Without Suffering Last Updated: August 31, 2026 Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BCEmotional pain is part of being human, but pain and suffering are not identical. I have lived through the deaths of three of my seven children and my husband,..
Complicated Grief: Prolonged Loss After Losing a Child
Last Updated: August 17, 2026 | Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC Anyone who has lost a loved one has experienced grief. For most people, bereavement brings feelings of sorrow, pain, and even guilt or anger, but those feelings gradually begin to ease over..
Emotional Vulnerability: How to Open Up About Mental Health
Last Updated: August 18, 2026 | Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC Around 44 million Americans have a mental illness. That means if you are not living with one, you know at least one person who is. Despite how common it is, receiving a diagnosis can be..
Core Beliefs and Triggers
Last Updated: August 17, 2026 | Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC If you have ever reacted intensely to a seemingly small comment or situation, you have experienced a trigger. In my work as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I often hear people use the..
Mental Load: How to Stop Relationship Burnout Before It Starts
If you have ever felt completely exhausted before you even start the laundry, you are likely carrying a heavy mental load. In my work as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I see countless couples struggling with a division of labor that looks equal on paper but..
Suppressing Emotions: If You Don’t Make Time, Your Body Will
Last Updated: August 17, 2026 | Author: Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC In my 25 years as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner, I have heard the same phrase from high performers over and over: “I don’t have time to feel this right now.” They believe that..
Grit Psychology: Why Pushing Through Isn’t Enough for Mental Strength
When faced with overwhelming hardship, many people rely entirely on grit psychology to survive. In my work as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with over 25 years of clinical experience, I frequently see individuals who believe that sheer willpower is the only way to navigate trauma…
How to Be Brave: Redefining Courage and Mental Strength
If you’ve ever wondered how to be brave when you are terrified, you are not alone. In my work as a Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner with over 25 years of clinical experience, I’ve seen countless people struggle with fear — people who are strong, capable, and..
Self Mastery: What It Really Means and How to Build It
Self Mastery: What It Really Means and How to Build It By Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC | Mentally STRONG® Most people who search for self mastery are already high-functioning. They’re not looking for basic motivation or a list of morning habits. They’re looking for something..
Resilience Training: What It Is, How It Works, and How to Start
Resilience Training: What It Is, How It Works, and How to Start By Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC | Mentally STRONG® Most people don’t think about resilience until they need it. And by then, life is already hard. That’s not a criticism. It’s just the reality..
Dysthymia or Persistent Depressive Disorder
What Is Persistent Depressive Disorder (Dysthymia)? A Psychiatrist Explains By Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, Ed.D., PMHNP — Founder of the Mentally STRONG Method Updated 6/2/2026 This post on persistent depressive disorder is part of Dr. B’s ongoing series, “Demystifying the DSM” — breaking down clinical diagnoses..
Your Questions About Emotional Resilience Answered
Your Questions About Emotional Resilience, Answered By Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, PMHNP-BC | Mentally STRONG® You’ve probably landed here because something isn’t working. Maybe you’ve tried the journaling, the podcasts, the self-help books. Maybe you’ve got more insight into yourself than most people will ever have,..
How to Reset Your Mental Health: Four Real Stories That Will Change the Way You Think
How to Reset Your Mental Health: Four Real Stories That Will Change the Way You Think If you have ever Googled “how to reset your mental health” at 11pm when you cannot explain why you feel so heavy, you already know something most people are..