Have you ever found yourself crying when you’re mad and wondered, “Why does this happen?” You’re not alone. Crying when angry can feel frustrating and confusing, especially when it seems to contradict the intensity of your emotions. But these tears are more than just an..
Introduction Dealing with social anxiety is tough. It can make everyday tasks feel overwhelming, especially when it comes to finding a job that fits your needs. But the good news is that there are career paths that can accommodate your anxiety while allowing you to..
Life often feels incredibly hard, doesn’t it? I hear this so often from people navigating difficult times—feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or even stuck. Life’s challenges can sometimes feel relentless, and it can be tough to see a way forward. It’s okay to feel this way; it’s..
An organized brain is a Mentally STRONG brain, and it almost sounds so easy. I’ve been on this self-development journey for over 20 years, and trust me, it’s not as straightforward as it seems. A staggering 50 to 70% of Americans report feeling overwhelmed or..
Hello, I’m Dr. Cristi Bundukamara, EdD PMHNP, and today, I want to share with you a perspective on anxiety that might differ from what you’ve commonly heard. Anxiety, a word often met with resistance and a desire to eliminate, holds a potential we seldom acknowledge—the..
Most of us carry a deep-seated belief of “I’m not good enough.” This core connection is more than just a fleeting negative thought; it is a fundamental belief about ourselves, often rooted in childhood experiences. Despite my 20 years of practicing the mentally strong method,..
“Why me?” It’s a question that resonates with many of us during life’s most challenging moments. Those two simple words can carry a heavy burden of pain, sorrow, and frustration. In this personal transcript, I, Cristi Bundukamara, will share my own experiences and insights into..
In our fast-paced lives, we often forget that emotions require energy and time. Just as we manage our finances to achieve financial goals, it’s crucial to manage our emotional budget to reach a state of well-being and self-actualization. While there’s no shortage of advice from..
In this blog post, Dr. B shines a light on the often-overlooked challenges of self-care. She understands the struggle of balancing personal well-being amidst a whirlwind of responsibilities. Drawing from her profound journey, Dr. B shares her experiences of neglecting self-care for an astonishing 17..
Cristi Bundukamara, Ed. D, PMHNP (aka, Dr. B.), founder and creator of the Mentally STRONG Method, discusses the effects of our thoughts on our potential and how we can become mentally stronger. The Effects of Negative Thinking Our thoughts – what we think daily and..